Some short men have a hard time meeting women, but not all, But my view is that if my height is a problem, it's her problem, not mine! However, short men often face some additional problems that should not be Heightism; Online Dating Is Tougher; Nothing Fits; You Don't Get Promoted. But being a short guy isn't exactly easy. Not only do you have to contend with women debating whether to ask your height on a dating app but. Short men are screwed when it comes to dating, right? After all: But my height has only been as much of a problem as I'd let it be. Over the. lot of angry men complain about women who won't consider dating men I had no idea that I even had such issues with a man's height and I.